Sunday, December 31, 2017

Honeymoon Winter 2017

We decided to go somewhere near for our honeymoon
Since muy fav state is California, so we went to San Diego for our honeymoon
It was winter break fro me that time
Couple days after we were done with our Walimah here in Arizona
We drove 5 hours to San Diego
This was my second time being there for this year
Last summer I was there with my girls
Then again this time with different person and different experience
Lovely :)
We were lucky to get the hotel which was by the beach
We get to walk to the beach anytime
Plus it's not expensive at all!
I was super excited and happy
It was 2 days before Christmas
Beach was quiet
Not much people there
But, the downside of travelling during Cristmas time was most stores were close
So sad when the ice cream place that I really want to go was also closed
But, it's okay as long as I get to be at the beach by the man that I love next to me 














Thursday, November 30, 2017

Hello!!!

Salam!!

It's been a while huh since my last post... a  year ago 
rasa macam sekelip mata je
1 year have passed by,just like thattttt
Tahun baru, banyak benda baru yang bakal I kongsi dengan u guys
Okay, major thing that I want to share is I DAH KAHWIN!! (almost 8 months dah)
Yeah it happened just like that
out of the blue
even me myself couldn't believe it at the first point haha
But yeah, Allah knows best

So, we start the new year together, Ramadhan and eid together
it's a whole new world
like seriously
everything is changing in a good way
love life, research life is getting better Alhamdulillah
The key is just to be patient and strive for the best
don't ever stop making dua to Allah because nothing is impossible for Him
Remember that guys

I can still recall when I went to Makkah
I make a serious dua to Allah
about send me the right man to be my spouse
alhamdulillah Allah granted my wish
one thing that u need to remember is, be specific when making Dua
as specific as u can
for example, if u want your spouse is a non-smoker, make dua for that
all tiny little thing, ask Allah
and insyaAllah he will give u
and while waiting, be prepared
prepare yourself  to be a good partner, learn how to cook, how to clean and everything
because it's crucial even though we don't have to do all those things but the key to becoming a good wife is all those skills right?
most husband will have the expectation that his wife is capable to do all those things and the best is, he will help u!!!
what is more beautiful than doing all house chores together guys
that's the best quality time to spend after a whole week being busy at work right

please don't be stress
because it will not give u any good
just go with the flow
as for me, I am happy with what I have now
Alhamdulillah no complain
and I hope u guys can be happy with everything that u have to
yes, we have to try to be better but at the same time, be content with what we have for now and at the same time, try to improve and be better

oh anyway, back to my marriage story
we met only a couple of months before we decide to get married
shocking right?
at first,t we just talking and suddenly it became serious
and we start to pray istikharah every night to ask Allah if we are the right person for each other
if u ask me, honestly i said, i was freaking out
because i just knew him
but our feeling towards each other is very strong
its like we've known each other for long
the moment he propose, i didn't expect that
and my answer was "insyaAllah let me ask my ummi first" hahah
of course its unexpected okay
plus dia bukan melayu hehe
lagi la macam2 bisikan syaitan dtg kan
we heard a lot of stories before bila malaysian kawen dgn org asing
but alhamdulillah, Allah sends me the right one
even if u marry malay, its never confirmed that u will be happy right
the main thing that we have to focus on is his religion, how he practice Islam, do you see him leading prayer every day for solat? do you see him become the father of your kids?
do you him become the brother to your sibling? do you see him become the son to your parent?
if you see all this, that's mean insyaAllah he's the right one no matter what race or where he's from

akad nikah performed by the imam and 2 witnesses which is my friend and my husband's friend


 selamat pengantin baru okay kat atas kek tu hahahah terbaik2 budak2 ni tempah and suruh the baker tulis in malay



our wedding photoshoot just close to our house




when we decide to get married here, Ummi was planning to come but it didn't happen because my sister xleh dpt cuti
she's a doctor and was very busy
so my brother pass the waliy responsibility to the Imam here
he sent the imam an email and also a phone call
Alhamdulillah Imam perform our nikah on 17/11/17
I'm official a wife

Now back to my PhD jorney
I'm entering my fourth year now
Almost done with coursework, only 1 class left
My research is about 40% done and targeting to submit another 2 journal paper before I can defense my proposal
US system is different, you must be done almost 80% to take proposal defense and few month after that you can have your thesis defense
semua ni should be between 1-2 semester
so, im planning to graduate in Fall 2019, insyaAllah everything is on track now

group meeting every friday

what keeps me alive every morning


I will be attending an international conference next month to present my research
this will be my second international conference that i attend
it would be fun because it will be out of US
time to explore new world
i will update my journey for that after i return to the US



Friday, July 14, 2017

Celebrating Eid in the cactus land

Olla!!

masa aku balik from trip to malaysia, it was May22
ramadhan begin on May27
so sempt la rilex jap before start ramadhan
sepanjang ramdhan kt sini memg sgt happening
masjid provide free iftar everydayand during 10 last days of ramadhan,diorang buat qiamullail everyday sekali dgn sahur lg provided

so kitorang pon apa lg
memg most of the time berbukan kt masjid
sbb not bad makanan dia
nasi arab everyday hahah
just tukar protein je
and akan ada makcik2 somali yg buat roti macam ala2 chakoi
sedap giler
hari2 mesti cari kuih tu hehe

kitorang sempat join qiam kt masjid sekali je
sbb semua ambik summer klas kan
so qiam kt rmah je lah haha
masa join prog qiam tu best sgt
ada ceramah 2 session and solat tahjud
kitorang stay terus after tarawih

tarawih sini buat 8 rakaat je
tp lama sebab dia habiskan 1 juz every night
so around 11 baru hbis tarawih

raya this year agak happening because we have couple of new people in our life
ada 2 org aunty and dgn diorang punya family
first daya raya jatuh on sunday
we are lucky enough sbb boleh pergo solat sunat hari raya pagi tu
gigih naik light rail pergi phoenix
sbb masjid tempe xbuat solat raya
xmuat katanya
happening sgt solat raya sbb boleh tgk pelbagai bangsa,pelbagai gaya masing2 gayakan
then after that teru balik rumah and ada open house dkt rumah my friend
kitorang pergi 2 days before sbb nk tolong diorang with everything for preparation
smgt hoi malam raya xtido
masak macam2
menu yg kitorang masak: nasi hujan panas,kurma ayam, pulut kuning, rendang daging,nasi himpit,kuah kacang
a week before raya smgt ni buat kuih raya haha
buat semperit, cornflakes madu,jejari oat and popia nestum
and ads jugak 3 jenis kuih raya yg aku sempat beli masa balik malaysia hari tu
memg meriah raya kali ni

the next day dah kena g skolah
tp xhabis lg
the weekend after which is Syawal7,kitorang berkampung dekat rumah kak carol
dia punya turn pulak buat open house
so apa lg
3days 2 nights kt sana
masak nasi arab, satay, rendang, ayam masak merah,kuah kacang,nasi himpit,lemang,ketupat
nasib baik ada boys semangat bakar satay haha
ada lg kak carol beli kek lapis la, seafood la....table was full with food!!!
everytime sleep over rumah dia memang xsempat nak lapar haha

then ada sesi fotografi
mandi kolam
main water baloon
main bunga api 
seronok sgt
tp ni last year la happening mcm ni
lepas ni tinggal aku sorang je
rmai adik2 ni dah graduate 
termasuk la housemate aku
huwaaaaa
not ready for that
seriously weh
hopefully Allah hantar pengganti utk menceriakan hidup aku mcam diorang ni

berbuka kat rumah aunty ida in Scottsdale


buat kuih rayaaaa

Phoenix Convention Center for solat raya




our Mama Jun


our juadah d pagi raya..

rumah student biasalah simple hehe





raya kt rumah Kak Carol






team bakar satay













before kena serang dgn water balloon haha









okay lah
tu je cerita raya
until next post!!!

p/s:doakan perjalanan phd aku taw...nyawa2 ikan nih huhu